Spew

Read: James 3:1-12
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It seems like for the last 2 weeks or so, I've been overdosing on words about sin. Whatever church setting I've been in, it's been about sin. Fellowship... we get into deep conversation about sin. It feels kind of overwhelming - but it also feels intentional, like God is behind the barrage of anti-sin words. Is He trying to reach me to remind me or prepare me? Or get me to see something that I'm doing that I'm not aware of? 

Sometimes it's what you aren't aware of that's the absolute worst.

It's kind of a roller coaster, because one minute I've learned to ask God for forgiveness when I pray and confess... then I have to learn how to forgive myself. Even when I think I've forgiven myself, the enemy works in such away that sins are unearthed in my mind, and I will spiral back into a state of unforgiveness towards myself... and perhaps unforgiveness towards other people as things I've forgiven people for become unearthed. 

As I've been on the receiving end of this sin-teaching roller coaster... I've been thinking about -

• Men get into specific patterns of negativity, which lead to lifestyles of negativity, which is fueled by sin and then continues to produce a downward spiral of negative, sinful lifestyle.

• We have to be conscious of sin, from the early symptoms of it - like desire & temptation, so we can avoid carrying out a sin.

• Forgiveness - God expects us to forgive, especially when we seek forgiveness from Him.

• Sin is a vicious cycle, and the only way out is through Christ.

• Salvation is ours, but salvation is a relationship w/ Christ that leads to our growth and change - away from sin.

Of course, in no way is that a complete list of everything, but those are some things that have been on my mind. Anything sin-related is a heavy thing to take on. I think that's why people scatter when sin is brought up, because it's an unpleasant weight on our hearts, one we don't want to deal with. The enemy wants us to keep our burdens close, so we can be imprisoned by them, and maintain a life of sin.

If there were no victory in Christ through his sacrifice, that might actually be a problem. Even when we are mired for years in sin and burden, Christ has already paid our sin debt - he's in a perpetual state of wanting us to accept that gift. He wants us to run to Him, and lay our sin at the Cross.

"Words that build or destroy... dirt, dry bones, sand, and stone..." - U2

James 3:1-12 talks about how we spew our words carelessly. How the littlest thing we say can be completely inflammatory, resulting in chaos & hurt. This goes back to another teaching about sin I read up on this week - about gossip. 

Gossip is everywhere... offices, family settings, churches.. Did I mention churches? Even the un-churched identify 2 key reasons why they would never set foot into a church is because of Politics & Gossip. They don't want anything to do with it. 

I don't blame them.

I wonder sometimes.. when I talk about frustrations, like with church Politics & Gossip - am I fostering the beginnings a negativity-driven lifestyle? I mean, I thought I was just getting some stuff off of my chest. To think that I'm actually creating negativity through trying to process my thoughts about something is crazy. I'm an emotional person, and I know that my words can cut more the angrier I get.

Interesting though... as I look at my life now, I'm really cautious when it comes to the church. I'm aware of the things I'm frustrated with, but in talking about those things, there's a distance between me and my giving myself the go-ahead to go head-long in building friendships and getting involved. That has only gained momentum over the years with having had negative experiences in "the journey."

When I take a step back and look at that, I realize that I do want to be in church, and I do want to build relationships with people, and I do want to grow in my relationship with Christ. 

Words of unforgiveness, words of anger, words of hurt, words of gossip -- may we be aware that if we don't filter our words in a way that magnifies God, that they can do damage. Damaging words are part of the sin roller coaster, because ultimately, our words aren't supposed to turn people away from God - they should turn people, and ourselves, towards God. Let our words be words that cause people to run to God as fast as we can.

Spiraling

Read: James 2:14-26
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Cancer. My mom has it - she found out that she has a small tumor in her breast, and that it is cancerous. Apparently, it's a very slow, very curable cancer. Today, she met with a surgeon to talk about when the tumor will be removed. They discussed something about a lymph node, and depending on how those look, she may face 5 weeks of radiation, 5 days per week, and hormone therapy.

In comparison to what I've seen in the world of cancer, my mom has a lighter journey ahead. I am grateful for this - my wife and I have prayed for God's blessings on this situation. My sister has been praying too. My pastor got a lot of people praying through our church's prayer network - it was amazing.

Today, my wife also went to the doctor to get a spot checked out on her arm... we thought it might be a skin cancer. She is fair-skinned, and has a universe's worth of freckles. There was a documentary on TV the other night about rare skin cancers and melanomas that become fatal if left unchecked. I was freaked. As it turned out, she just had a spot of psoriasis. Though, the doctor did say to come back if it didn't go away with the medicine she was prescribed.

Mesa, Arizona

Recently, my wife and I flew to Arizona. We needed to spend time with her side of the family, and participate in a Celebration of Life service for her Grandma Jo who passed away this past December. Neither one of us like flying, even though I am a big fan of aircraft. I think it's the whole turbulence thing. I have faith though, that passenger jets are designed to withstand the "bumpy" ascents and descents. Why would they put a few hundred people on the same plane if it weren't a safe way to travel. I know... it's the safest. It's just scary when flying through the air feels like you're riding on a 4-wheeler down a dirt road. It's very humbling and faith-strengthening.

Yesterday, our neighbor's Pomeranian passed away. I found out about it over Facebook. I could tell in her words that this was a very big loss. I've been there - I've lost pets who were as much a part of the family as a brother. I was sad to hear the news, because the last time I saw that dog, he was very energetic, engaging, and friendly - like he was glad I was at their house. Our neighbor compared the love and kindness her dog expressed to Christ, because she knew in her heart that it was an unconditional love.

Earlier today, I was talking with my brother-in-Christ Joe about music. It seems like music has escaped me a little bit. Part of it is my doing, but I'm wondering if part of it is by God's will. I've always had music in my life. Now, I find myself doing graphics for my job most of the time, and it's very fulfilling. It's become a new means of doing ministry - communicating Christ through something visual. 

I released an album independently 2 years ago... it was so exciting. Joe plays guitar in my band. It feels strange to call it my band, because our last worship concert was over a year ago. We had another concert before that, so 2 concerts total. Every attempt in the meantime to set up another show has been a wash. It seems that I'm also unable to write a song lately.

I left my job as a worship leader a few months ago - and as I test the waters to participate in that kind of ministry again, I feel overwhelmed with a sense of "no", coupled with stagnation, and maybe even fear.

Is it timing? Is it God's will? I'm kind of praying that it's just a season.. and that maybe He would fill my heart with a passion for music once again at some point - maybe soon? There it is... my will and not His.

Truth is... I don't know how James 2:14-26 works with everything I just typed above. I'm glad I read it though.

Maybe God is trying to speak into my heart about being authentic not only as a Christian, but also about being authentic as a practicing Christian. The whole point of it is that it's not enough just to say you have faith - you have to show it in your works. 

We prayed for my mom, that even after a really tough journey in her life, that God would spare her a journey through chemo therapy and long-term suffering. God came through. Yet, tonight at dinner, I was unforgiving when she kind of snapped at me in front of everyone. I offered to bring her sour cream for her taco...but apparently she was sick of being offered it. I know... right!?  Both of my parents snap... they kind of always have. I wasn't really prepared for it tonight. I think I was hoping for a celebratory mood... for the good news. In my heart... I couldn't wait until everyone left. I suck for feeling that way - I should have been more forgiving.

I actually should be more forgiving across the board. It's one of the toughest things about being a Christian - yet God is specific about our forgiveness being like His.

If we don't forgive and claim to be in faith, we are demonstrating a faith that "saves no one", as it says in James. "A body is dead without breath, and faith is dead without works."

There are so many examples around me... I literally listed some of them at the beginning of this post. God's presence, evidence of His awesome works on display. Wake up, Matt.

Authentic faith, practicing faith... practicing Christ-likeness is something that starts from 0 everyday. As we grow, it still starts at 0. Which is great, because that means everyday is new - everyday is a new chance to try and forgive again. It's a new chance to pray again. It's another chance to try and write another song, to get closer to God in a personal worship time.

May Your breath be breathed into our faith through our hearts, and through our works. May our eyes be opened to evidences of You in our lives.. on a plane, in healing, through demonstrations of love & blessings, through the recognition of Christ's presence in people around us...and in our own hearts and outward-ness towards all people, especially those who are closest to us. Forgive us, and teach us to forgive again and again. Forgive me, and teach me to forgive again and again.